Taylor Alison Swift is a female American singer-songwriter, currently 27 years old, who has an estimated net worth of
$250 million USD and is considered to be one of the best-selling artists of all
time. Swift has produced a total of 5 studio albums since her 2006 debut, when she was 16 years old:
Taylor Swift (2006), Fearless (2008),
Speak Now (2010),
Red (2012), and 1989 (2014). She has garnered
both commercial and critical success: as of 2016, she has sold a total of 40
million albums and has received 10 Grammy Awards, 19 American Music Awards, 23 Billboard Music Awards, 11 Country Music Association Awards, 8 Academy of Country Music Awards, 1 Brit Award, and 1 Emmy.
Besides her music, Swift is most famous for
her personal life, which often catalyzes her songwriting. Most of her songs employ diary-like lyrics to
explore the bases for her failed relationships with other high-profile
celebrities. Swift’s pattern of
celebrity dating followed by deeply confessional songwriting has caused many in
the media to speculate that “she is a ruthless, publicly capitalist pop star” who has been “strategically employing famous boyfriends to shape her
music and public image since it was legal for her to do so.” For her part, Swift denies the cynical
motivations and seems to claim, instead, that she cannot do otherwise than try
to understand her own personal experiences, even if it is partly to her
detriment:
“People have essentially gotten to read my diary for the last 10 years. I still write personal songs, and sometimes people like
to put a very irritating, negative, spin on that — as if I'm oversharing, as if
it's too much information — when this has been the way I've lived my life and
run my career the entire time. So I do think it's really important that I
continue to give people an insight into what my life is actually like, even
though it comes at a higher cost now.”
Whatever one thinks of her motives, it is clear that relationships are a focal point for Swift.
Her songs describe her relationships with ex-boyfriends—Joe Jonas (“Forever & Always”), Taylor Lautner (“Back to
December”), John Mayer (“Dear John”, “I Knew You Were Trouble”),
Jake Gyllenhaal (
IEI) (“We Are Never Getting
Back Together”, “All Too Well”), Conor Kennedy (“Begin Again”), and Harry
Styles (“Style”,“Out of the Woods”) — as well
as her parents (“Best Day”), other celebrities such as Kanye West (“Innocent”)
and Katy Perry (“Bad Blood”), the media (“Shake It off”, “Blank Space”), and
critics (“Mean”).
She occasionally
writes about her observations of other people’s relationships (“Fifteen”, “You
Belong with Me”), or speculates on her ideal relationship (“Love Story”) or on
unrequited feelings and relationships that never were (“Teardrops on My Guitar”).
Swift’s lyrical preoccupation with
relationships strongly suggests an
R-valuing, i.e.
Integrity-Seeking, quadra (e.g.
Gamma or
Delta) over an
E-valuing, i.e.
Clarity-Seeking, quadra
(e.g.
Alpha or
Beta).
Unlike
E-based
artists such as
David Bowie (EIE),
Freddie Mercury (
EIE), or
Bob Dylan (
IEI), there is an absence in
Swift’s artistry of any sentiment-based rallying or visionary redirection of
the status quo (e.g. Mercury’s “We are the Champions”, “I Want to Break Free,”
“Don’t Stop Me Now”, Dylan’s “Blowin’ in the Wind”, “Times They are
A-Changing”, and Bowie’s “Heroes”, “Young Americans”).
Instead, many of Swift’s songs read more like
Jane Austen-inspired lessons on what constitutes a good relationship:
"we think
that Prince Charming's gonna come along, is gonna
have a white cape on, is going to put us on a pedestal. And the bad guy wears
black and we always know who that guy is. But what we don't realize is that, in
reality, the bad guy is wearing jeans. And he's cute. And he's charming, makes
you laugh, and you believe him. You think he's the good guy. Then, you realize
he's not" (on “White Horse”)
Or analyses of the personal characteristics of the individuals involved that ultimately led to the relationship’s undoing:
Already, Swift’s self-generated fixation on defining her life according to relationships suggests an
R-ego type over a
P-ego type that merely values
R.
Moving away from analyzing her artistic expression, Swift’s actions also betray many signs of an
R-ego type.
Swift is well known for her “girl squad” of celebrities from diverse
industries, whose eclectic composition is governed entirely by Swift’s personal
relationship with each individual rather than over-arching commonalities
amongst the members (as more commonly seen in
E-valuers). Her friend Karlie Kloss has described this
ability to bridge relationships across individuals as Swift’s hidden talent. Others have her praised her for
her generosity and loyalty:
"It’s amazing to have a friend who’s that busy and also so available. Even if she’s in Hong Kong on tour and I’m going through
something, if I text her, I get an answer in two seconds. If something good
happens to me—say, I get a nomination, or it’s my birthday, or the day before
my birthday, or my book comes out—I get a text from Taylor way before I get a
text from my mom” (Lena Dunham).
This confidence and aptitude in developing close relationships, as well as a
propensity to focus her communication to interpersonal themes—both in song and
in person, strongly supports an
R-ego type for Swift (e.g.
SEE,
ESI,
IEE or
EII).
In considering Swift’s use of
R, it is important to note that it is often employed
at a detriment to
E.
In concerts, Swift
has a propensity for making pre-song speeches that are intended to explicate
her state of mind or even her “
rules for friendship.”
These speeches are often widely panned by the
media as awkward or self-absorbed (see
The Soup).
To add insult to injury,
Swift frequently responds to perceived “
character assassination” by further
attempting to explain herself.
In general, Swift seems to overshare personal
information in an attempt to correct misinterpretations of her character, without
consideration for how it will be generally received or whether it is in
accordance with the current social climate.
This approach is also evidenced in her song “Blank Space,” which Swift
intended to be a satire of the media’s misconceptions of her:
"Some of the things I write about on a song like "Blank Space" are satire. You take your creative license and create
things that are larger than life. You can write things like I get drunk on
jealousy but you'll come back each time you leave, 'cause darling I'm a nightmare
dressed like a daydream. That is not my approach to relationships. But is it
cool to write the narrative of a girl who's crazy but seductive but glamorous
but nuts but manipulative? That was the character I felt the media had written
for me, and for a long time I felt hurt by it. I took it personally. But as
time went by, I realized it was kind of hilarious."
Rather than respond to the media by altering her image, Swift either explicates her motives or continues to act according
to her own preferences (
e.g. Swift looking shocked at wins).
Swift’s approach well-characterizes someone whose
R, or personal sentiments, causes
them to disregard their public image, i.e.
E7:
In contrast,
R2 types such as
IEE or
SEE effectively parlay their stronger
E8—i.e., their popularity
and understanding of other people’s needs— toward relationships that serve
their leading functions — i.e., exploring new experiences or expanding their
influence, respectively.
Swift’s social inflexibility and static
approach is also more consistent with
L3 (
EII and
ESI) than
L4 (
IEE and
SEE).
In an interview with Barbara
Walters, Swift stresses the importance of acting in a principled manner:
“I did wait until I was 21 to drink. I was so
paranoid about getting in trouble or setting the wrong example or sending the
wrong message. I put every one of my
actions through a filter before I do them because that's the way my life
is. …
…. If I do something reckless or thoughtless or
careless, or I treat someone badly, that doesn't just affect me; it affects
that person. Then, if that story gets out, or some 10-year-old sees that I did
that in a news article… my actions do have ripples …
… It would be really easy to say, 'I'm 21
now, I do what I want. You raise your kids,' but it's not the truth of it. The
truth of it is that every singer out there with songs on the radio is raising
the next generation, so make your words count."
ESIs and
EIIs, with
L3, try to respect social rules,
particularly when these rules are perceived to be consequential toward fostering
well-being or general good.
In contrast,
R2 types, e.g.
Britney Spears (
SEE),
Elizabeth Taylor (
SEE),
Amy Winehouse (
SEE),
James
Franco (
IEE), with
L4, can often be inconsistent in their actions and heedless of
societal norms. Moreover, Swift seems to lack the impulsiveness or moment-based
explorations of a type with
T5 (
SEE) or
T7 (
IEE).
Rather, she conveys a level of self-control
governed by her contemplation long-term impact, indicating
T in a more pronounced position. Consistent
with a type that employs
L for the sake of
R, Swift has stated that she enjoys
her designation as a role-model because she considers it
“a compliment on your character.” This
leaves
ESI and
EII as possible types for Swift.
Swift’s need to be understood by
most people, often at injury to her own goals, suggests EII over the more
self-preserving ESI with strong and valued F.
Swift seems unable to create psychological distance to her own benefit. In feuds with other celebrities such as Kanye
West (EIE) or Katy Perry (SEE), Swift describes herself as vulnerable (“The support I got from other artists and from the fans, and so many people sticking
up for me, that’s what got me to the place where I could accept that apology.
And I’m just very thankful that everyone showed me so much love.”) and aversive
to conflict (“I'm surprisingly non-confrontational - you would not believe how
much I hate conflict. So now I have to avoid her. It's awkward, and I don't
like it”). Rather than approach
confrontation head-on, Swift oscillates between victimization and
avoidance:
“With the song 'Shake It Off,' I really wanted to kind of take back the narrative, and have more of a sense of humor
about people who kind of get under my skin — and not let them get under my
skin. There's a song that I wrote a couple years ago called "Mean,"
where I addressed the same issue but I addressed it very differently. I said,
"Why you gotta be so mean?," from kind of a victimized perspective,
which is how we all approach bullying or gossip when it happens to us for the
first time. But in the last few years I've gotten better at just kind of
laughing off things that absolutely have no bearing on my real life.”
Moreover, Swift seems to not even consider the
possibility of striking back or standing her ground: in reference to her song
“Shake It Off” she stated,
“I've had every part of my life dissected—my
choices, my actions, my words, my body, my style, my music. When you live your
life under that kind of scrutiny, you can either let it break you, or you can
get really good at dodging punches. And when one lands, you know how to deal
with it. And I guess the way that I deal with it is to shake it off.”
Swift’s inability to apply pressure or
establish boundaries, even when reasonably needed to avert painful outcomes, effectively
rules out the
F-ego types of
SEE and
ESI.
Moreover, it suggests a type with extremely weak
F, likely
F4.
Taken together with the other type-based
observations of Swift, we are left with
EII.
Consistent with this typing, Swift conveys a very weak understanding of
F in which she seems to liken most attempts at dominance to bullying (a
negative manifestation) and fails to consider its intrinsic value (instead
attributing insecurity as the only possible motive to its employment):
“When I was in middle school, I had this fantasy — and I
really thought this was how life worked — that when we were in school, we had
to deal with bullying and kids picking on you for no reason, or making you feel
like somehow don't deserve what you want, or you're not what you should be. And
I thought that when you grow up and you're not in school anymore, when you're
out there in the world with adults, that it's not like that anymore, that
people don't attack each other for no reason or try to tear each other down. And
I realized when I grew up that it's the same. It's the same dynamics, except
we're not walking from classroom to classroom. It's just interesting how you
have to learn how to deal with this at one point or another in your life
because people don't necessarily ever grow out of those impulses to pick on
each other. Some of us do; some of us realize that's something you do when
you're insecure, you try to lash out at someone else. But a lot of people will
always do that to other people.”
In further support of a
Delta typing, Swift’s approach toward individuals who have wronged her is frequently generous rather than vindictive. During Swift’s acceptance of an MTV Video Music Awards (2009), Kanye West interjected his opinion that
Beyoncé (
SEE) should have won the award instead, insulting Swift and effectively prohibiting her from completing her speech. In response, Swift wrote the song “
Innocent.”
Rather than just forgive West, Swift’s “Innocent” goes so far as to suggest that West is “still an innocent”
capable of redemption— i.e., “today is never too late to be brand new; Who you
are is not what you did.” In a
display of good-will and newfound friendship, six years after West’s
interruption and at the same award show, Swift praises West and presents him
with his own award:
“'I first met Kanye West six years ago — at this show, actually!' she said, noting that West’s freshman album The College
Dropout, was 'the very first album my brother and I bought on iTunes when I was 12 years old…I’ve been a fan of his for as long as I can remember because
Kanye defines what it means to be a creative force in music, fashion and, well, life. So, I guess I have to say to all the other winners tonight: I’m really happy for you, and imma let you finish, but Kanye West has had one of the greatest careers of all time.'"
This apparent desire for harmonious relations is
consistent with
Delta, over
Gamma, quadra values for Swift.
Moreover, the basis for Swift’s amicability
seem driven by
R+I beliefs of an individual’s latent potential for
improvement, which she again references (this time explicitly) in her “1989”
album foreword:
“The debate over whether people can change is an interesting one for me to observe because it
seems like all I ever do is change. All I ever do is learn from my mistakes so
I don’t make the same ones again. Then I make new ones. I know people can
change because it happens to me little by little every day. Every day I wake up
as someone slightly new. Isn’t it wild and intriguing and beautiful to think
that every day we are new?"
In spite of Swift’s seemingly optimistic belief in human potential, she takes a
more fatalistic stance on relationships that is consistent with
EII over
IEE. In reference to “I Knew You Were Trouble”
Swift explains that she often knows when relationships are ill-fated, but
chooses to pursue them anyway:
Unlike an
IEE, with
T7, Swift seems predominantly cognizant of, and confident in predicting, how relationships
might end given sparse momentary information. Moreover, rather than relishing moment-by-moment exploration of unknown
possibilities, Swift seems motivated to avoid regret for a lost experience that
might have had the potential to go
somewhere meaningful. This approach
well-characterizes that of an
I-valuer whose stronger
T8 results in a somewhat paradoxical openness to forging new and interesting experiences
and a need to reconcile these pursuits with their long-term impact. Swift references this conflict again when discussing
a song:
“‘Wildest Dreams’ is about a relationship that is just beginning and
already foreshadowing the ending of it….. That's actually a really good example
of the way I go into relationships now. If I meet someone who I feel I have a
connection with, the first thought I have is: ‘When this ends, I hope it ends
well. I hope you remember me well.’"
This forward-looking tendency of Swift is strongly evidenced in her
approach to relationships, which have often been characterized as too
fast-moving and intense. Swift even says
of herself, “
I used to think that, you know, you find 'the one'... And
it's happily ever after, and it's never a struggle after that.” This idealization of the future is also evident when Swift claims that “
the most heart-breaking part of a break-up [is] that moment when you realize that
all the dreams you had, all those visions you had of being with this person,
all that disappears." Consistent
with
T-usage for the sake of
I, Swift’s music seems to interrogate past
relationships for meaning, speculating on reasons for their failure as a way to
learn how to choose relationships with greater potential in the future.
This approach makes other types, including
ESI, unlikely and typifies that of an
EII.
I suggest that Taylor
Swift is
EII. Consistent with this typing, Swift seems to view her music as a
means to communicate her relationship understanding to others (
“These songs were once about my life. Now they are about yours”).
Moreover, Swift interacts with the world largely
via small, well-meaning gestures toward distinct individuals, typical of
Delta-quadra types.
“Swiftmas” is her
yearly holiday giving of gifts to fans whom she researches and hand-selects. These
actions have been criticized for the insignificance of their impact— e.g., she
once gifted a fan $1989 to help defray her > $35K cost of tuition.
Moreover, though Swift has seemed to act rather
consistently and rather without guile (even going so far as to
invite 89 fans to her house for a pre-album release), she seems dismayed and perplexed by
the media’s interpretation of her actions.
This media misunderstanding, as well as her multitude of failed romantic relationships
with celebrities, are likely a consequence of being a
Delta-quadra type in a
predominantly
Beta-environment.
Swift
seems to reject a desire to be famous or increase her power for its own sake:
she admires other musicians, such as Debbie Harris, because
“It's not about fame for her, it's about music.“ For Swift, music seems to be a vehicle for
empathy:
“hearing a song by somebody singing about their life, and it resembles yours so much that it makes you feel comforted.”
Taylor Swift displays consistent traits of an EII. She employs a Delta Humanitarian, R1+I2, approach of understanding the world through the lens of her personal relationships. Her I2 belief in human potential seem to be mediated by her T8 quest for an ideal mate over the long-term. Swift seems to act in a rather principled manner, aware of the need to set a good example (consistent with L3). In spite of this, Swift has problems with how she is interpreted. Her need to accurately represent her own motivations is already an indication of a type with weak and devalued E and contrasts from the more Beta mentality of "any press is good press." These qualities are characteristic of the image-ignoring tendencies of an E7. Adding to this, her F4 makes her ill supported to handle this backlash.
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